Monthly Archives: January 2010

What You’re Doing Matters

I saw this video on Karen’s blog, Chookooloonks and I instantly melted. It does not help that I have been extremely sensitive for a while. Just about anything that screams connectedness, love, or cherish makes me melt. This was put together by Katherine Center for the upcoming Mom 2.0 Summit. I will not be attending, but I heard it is definitely worth checking out. Enjoy.

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Quality Time for Reflection

January is going by so fast for me this year. Some people tell me this is a slow month for them, I can not say that is the case for me at all. After the first of the year, the days almost blur into each other. I am finding it more important than ever to journal on a daily basis so I can recall the fullness of my days. I find I fill my days with less crap and enjoy spending it with my family. I take the time to listen to my children’s conversations and watch them as they do their homework with my husband. How often do we take the time to simply listen to what people are saying? Seriously?

I have been accused of not really listening to what someone is saying to me; interpreting their words to mean something else. In my past, yes, I have been known to do this. Now, this is not the case. I love stories and some of the best stories are those that people tell you about themselves. I do try to listen with a compassionate ear, because I know it is not easy for everyone to express themselves verbally. This is in no way a fault. When you think about a newborn, they can not express love to you verbally from birth, but if you pay attention, you notice the way they curl into your body when they sleep and the soft sigh they let out when they know they are safe. The non-verbal way people express love is just as important as the verbal. The fact that love is being expressed at all says a lot.

I pray I am always open to being able to recognize all forms of expressed love. I also pray that I continue to grow as a good listener and that my listening ear will always be received.

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Renew, Revive, Refresh

Nature often holds up a mirror so we can see more clearly the ongoing processes of growth, renewal and transformation in our lives. ~ Anonymous

Love this quote so much right now. I have not been creating a whole lot of art lately. But, before I hit a dry spell, I started creating a series of pieces where hearts dominated the artwork. I am going to share those over the course of the next few days along with a quote or two that resonates with my spirit. Enjoy.

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Lessons in Love from the Little People

My dear friend Karen host Love Thursdays over at Chookooloonks, hence the heart shaped piece of chicken in my post. My children look for hearts in everything now, and I never miss a chance to see and experience love through their eyes.

When I selected the word Endure as my theme for the year, I had no idea I would be put to the test of living the meaning of endure so soon into the new year.

Honestly, it has been difficult to focus or be creative lately. Things that used to inspire me no longer inspire. My children have been inspiring me lately (please reference the heart-shaped chicken breast my son discovered at my birthday dinner). Their expressions of love make my tender heart feel so full. I have been observing them more, listening to the conversations they have with each other, and here is what my children are teaching me:

  • Unconditional love is real. All you have to do is look on the eyes of a child to understand the depth of love they have for you.
  • Love is expressed in more than words. The first thing my kids do when the come in the door from school or me from work is hug me and tell me how much they miss me. Sometimes, my middle child will have a picture for me and there is always a heart somewhere on the paper. My son has left action figures in my purse and I do not find them until I get to work. My oldest, at 16, gives me a few moments of her time to tell me about her day and to ask me about mine. I love them for hugging me, thinking of me and giving me some of their time.
  • Love always brings you back together. My two youngest frequent argue about something, but I have noticed they do not stay mad at each other for long. Eventually, they come back together and start playing again as if nothing ever happened. They miss being in each other’s presence and that longing and love brings them back together in spite of made them mad in the first place.

Hmm, what do you think about that? I would say children are wise beyond their years when it comes to love and I am thankful to have three little people to teach me how to love more and be loveable everyday.

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Theme Word for 2010: Endure


How I love this picture of my little people. Everytime I see it, it makes me smile.

I choose a word each year to represent a quality I want to grow within myself. This year, the word Endure selected me. Strange word…maybe to some, but not for me.

Endure means to continue to exist, last. To support adverse force or influence of any kind. Suffer without yielding. Suffer patiently. To bear with Patience.

I like this word a lot. I like what it stands for. There is a quiet elegance about it. It reminds me of a palm tree. The image has been in my head a lot lately; the image of the tree swaying. I love that.

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